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Men Collect and Shelve Women Trophies: Author Marc
Rudov Blasts Unilateral Pursuit in Article About The Golden Rule
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Marc H. Rudov, author of The Man’s
No-Nonsense Guide to Women: How to Succeed in Romance on Planet Earth
(TM), has published a new article, “The Golden Rule Dictates
Your Sex Life,” that outlines the hazards of men unilaterally
pursuing women. Basically, the traditional courting roles -- man as
hunter and woman as trophy -- impose an unhealthy imbalance that
obviates a peer relationship, which is the cornerstone of true mutual
respect and a satisfying sex life. Like it or not, relationships adhere
to the “Golden Rule of the Business World”: whoever
has the gold makes the rules. The article is available from the book's
Website: http://TheMansNoNonsenseGuideToWomen.com.
Los Gatos, CA (PRWEB) January 5, 2004 -- Marc H. Rudov, author of The
Man’s No-Nonsense Guide to Women: How to Succeed in Romance
on Planet Earth (TM) (ISBN 0-9745017-0-0), has published a new article,
“The Golden Rule Dictates Your Sex Life,” that
outlines the hazards of men unilaterally pursuing women. Basically, the
traditional courting roles -- man as hunter and woman as trophy --
impose an unhealthy imbalance that obviates a peer relationship, which
is the cornerstone of true mutual respect and a satisfying sex life.
Like it or not, relationships adhere to the “Golden Rule of
the Business World”: whoever has the gold makes the rules. In
a stereotypical situation, a man, by default, leads and bankrolls the
courting process. Consequently, he feels ownership of the process and
the woman. Notwithstanding the obvious hazards of such an arrangement,
most romancers are resigned to it. The only solution, which requires
that both men and women reject years of socialization, is mutual
pursuit. A companion piece to the book, the article is available for
downloading from the Media & Events page at:
http://TheMansNoNonsenseGuideToWomen.com.
“Unilateral pursuit is an obsolete, destructive, demeaning
practice for both the pursuers and the pursued, making both parties
unhappy,” claims Rudov. “In the classical chase,
man plays the aggressor and bounty-seeker, and, by design, woman plays
the target, prize, conquest, and acquired asset. This power ritual made
sense when women could not vote, get credit, own property, or be
president of Brown University or CEO of Xerox. But, it sure as hell
doesn’t make sense in our modern world. So, the woman who
insists on being pursued, the passive trophy, must understand that she
is yielding power to the man, who becomes the one with the gold and,
therefore, the one who will and should set the rules. In professional
sports, after collecting one trophy, the athlete has but one mandate:
shelve it and win the next one. Men and women who play the
unilateral-pursuit game always seem to experience the same
phenomenon,” explains Author Rudov.
Continuing, Author Rudov admonishes women: “Quite simply: If
you don’t want to be treated like a trophy, don’t
act like one. Be proactive, contribute gold, and share
control.” Rudov adds, “Men and women should accept
only peer-based, reciprocating relationships that begin with mutual,
simultaneous pursuit.”
Contrary to popular belief, Author Rudov maintains that men and women
are from the same planet but, unfortunately, have been socialized
differently and programmed for conflict. He counsels men that the only
way to succeed with women is to remove their layers of socialized
behavior and find women who have done, or are willing to do, likewise.
The Man's No-Nonsense Guide to Women: How to Succeed in Romance on
Planet Earth, which is available for $17.95 on
http://TheMansNoNonsenseGuideToWomen.com, teaches them how. Both men
and women have been buying the book and validating its principles.
The book’s Website also contains a helpful advice column for
men and women: Dear No-Nonsense Advisor.
About the Author
Marc H. Rudov, an investment banker and business consultant residing in
Silicon Valley, California, received his formal education in
engineering and business. He obtained his vast informal training in
relationships with women through over a decade in the dating world
after his divorce. In addition to his book, Mr. Rudov wrote the article
“Five Myths About Women.” Contact Mr. Rudov at:
info@themansnononsenseguidetowomen.com
Success in Romance on Planet Earth is a trademark of MHR Enterprises.
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