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TenTips On How To Get That Guy
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by:
Roy Barker
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1. Show the Guy That You Are Vulnerable
Men need to feel needed, yes it may be from the dinosaurs but it does
still apply. I do not mean that you have to be weak, give in to
whatever he wants, and put up with any way he treats you I am not
suggesting that. Many men like strong women, but strong women who put
out that they do not need a guy often end up alone. It is fine to be
strong but try and temper it with "ok here is a situation where I can
be vulnerable". Men have a strong protective instinct, though
they may rarely show it.
2. Let The Guy Think That He Is Doing The Hunting
Men love the thrill of the chase, it is in their genetic makeup, it is
definately a male thing. Play a little secretive and hard to get, and
men will flock like bees to honey.
That means having a sense of your own worth, men hate women who are
clingy. They are not props, they hate boosting a womens ego all the
time. In fact men
want a real balanced person. Make him feel he wants to make the first
move and do the chasing. Women learn to manipulate men at a very early
age. By the age of five most girls have learnt how to wrap their father
around there little finger.
3. "Let The Guy Think That He Is Mr Right Rather Than Mr Right Now!"
Stroke their egos, they are not a ticket to go out and pay all the
time, let them know that you really value them as a person.
4. Laugh At His Jokes
This is imperative that a man feels he is funny and witty and is an
extension of three, they are valued for their sense of humour. Where
would we be in life without
laughter.
5. Never Call Him After The First During The Next Week
If a guy is interested in seeing you again, trust me he will call you
in the first week. He will do this even if he says he has to go out of
town. If you call him, you come
across as over-anxious. You appear desperate, and are more likely to
scare the guy off. It is OK to ask him out the first time but not the
second.
6. If You Are Dating Online Get A Professional Photo Taken At A Studio
When dating online you have to market yourself to be successful. A
professional photographer will know how to get the best shots out of
you and make you look your very best.
7.Don't Go Out With Your Girlfriends In Large Groups
Some men feel that approaching a women in a large group is
intimidating. Go out in smaller groups, and make it easier for an
interested guy to approach you.
8. Approach Him
Be confidant enough to approach him and ask him if he wants to go for a
coffee. If you're not sure whether he is gay or not, then approach him
anyway.
If he gives you the brush-over then you have lost nothing, but you can
pat yourself on the back for taking the initiative, most men will be
flattered by this.
9. You Like Him But He Is Ignoring You
Guys are insecure, and they want to feel liked, and popular. Start
ignoring him for a while, not rudely, you don't have to make an issue
out of it. Just look right through him, and he will start to be piqued.
There is no guarantee here he may not take it any further, it may just
boost his confidance, but you have not lost anything
10. Don't Appear To Be Desperate
Desperation is a real turn off for men. It is an indicator that a woman
is going to start to get clingy, and that is not good. Appear yourself
and show a friendly interest.
About the author:
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